ROSS JEFFRIES RESUMEN

1.-LLAMAR SU ATENCIÓN

2.- ESTABLECER ESTADOS DE SUS SENTIMIENTOS Y UNA CONEXIÓN EXTRAORDINARIA Y LIGA A TI

3.- CREAR ESTADOS DE CELENTAMIENTO, EXCITACIÓN, ATRACCIÓN.

4.- AMPLIFICAR ESTOS ESTADOS, Y LIGARLOS A TI.

-Yo solo quiero decir, y espero que no encuentres esto muy intrusivo (extraño)

-Te importaría si solo te pregunto, solo para ayudarme a entender mejor…

REGLAS Y ACTITUES DE SPEED SEDUCTION

1. Siempre comunicarse con una dirección u objetivo en mente.
2. Primero crear estados de fascinación, conexión, sentimiento y conexión intensa, antes de moverse a la parte sexual.
3. El propósito de tu comunicación no es darle un entendimiento; el propósito de  tu comunicación es obtener un resultado.(S.S. trbaja al manipular y dirijir el inconsciente y los procesos inconscientes, NO dando una aceptación consciente. Deja de discutir y explicarlo a tus competidores).
4. Speed Seduction es divertido, es una actitud divertida la del S.S.
5. Manten tus habilidades en secreto (Cualquier técnica trabaja mejor si es secreta e inesperada, entonces no hay que decir que se conocen estas cosas).
6. Ser humilde con el conocimiento, y entender como funciona  la mente.
7. Siempre ir de lo menos intrusivo a lo más intrusivo.
8. Nunca resistir lo que ofrece una mujer---voltealo y usalo como palanca. Mostraremos como destruir las objeciones de las mujeres, usando este principio.
9. La diversión está donde está el reto. Lo que no está trabajando es la puerta abierta a nuevos poderes y entendimientos.
10. La menor atracción inicial que tenga por ti, o lo menos sexual que es una persona, lo mas que debes contar en mojar su cuerpo para que ella te coja. Observa que respuestas estas teniendo y responde de manera acorde.
11. Usa los ablandadores libremente. Haciendo esto,  podrás introducir los tópicos más salvajes, como las preguntas más intruisivas, y se vera respetable, normal guy, instead of a sex-crazed mind-fucker.

Softener:

Cuando estoy conociendo a alguien, es importante para mi encontrar que es lo que realmente quieren de su vida. Entonces, si no te importa que pregunte, que es realmente importante para ti de…

LA ACTITUD CORRECTA ES VERY IMPORTANT ISSUE

PENSAR COMO EL PESCADOR Y NO JALAR MUY RÁPIDO EL ANZUELO

Hacerlo hasta que piense que es algo natural el hacerlo

Si la técnica no funciona con algunas mujeres, no es tu culpa:

ALGUNAS MUJERES LLEVAN LA MUERTE ADENTRO -> R.J.

No puedes obtener pasión de una frigida, fria, apagada pepa.

Te quiero como u pit bull a la hora de ser un maestro en la técnica de Speed Seduction.

Que hace un pit bull, una vez que agarra algo no lo suelta.

TU APRENDERAS ALGO QUE PODRAS USAR LA PROXIMA VEZ

ESTAR CONTIGO ES LA MEJOR OPCIÓN POSIBLE QUE UNA MUJER PUEDE HACER!!!

CREAR LA CONEXIÓN EMOCIONAL…

NECESITARAS SALIR Y CREAR TUS OPORTUNIDADES.

A Speed Seducer takes one look, decides to go for it,

HE’S AFTER THAT WOMAN LIKE STINK ON SHIT!!!!

SE CONCENTRA EN ATRAER AQUELLAS QUE TIENEN SABOR POR LA VIDA.

The Average Frustated Chump is a sensible economy sedan.  The Speed Seducer in his approach to women and life in general is A NITRO-BURNING FUNNY CAR !!!

Toda experiencia es simplemente una oportunidad de aprender, expandirse y crecer. No hay fallas; solo retroalimentación, solamente hay falla si tu te dejas caer y renuncias!!!

SOLO TU PUEDES DETERMINAR CUANTO PODER LE DARAS A UNA MUJER PARA PARARTE!!!

Una de las herramientas básicas para hacer que alguien se mueva en la dirección que uno quiera son los comandos.

COMANDOS

Puedes meter el comando Sentirse muy atraido Feel very attracted, You know, some people find, as they listen to someone who’s very fascinating, that they can FEEL VERY ATRACTED, Debbie.”

Aplicando los patrones, las mujeres dirán:

God, I’m really getting hot, but I shouldn’t be Keeling this way. I don’t even know this guy!!!

Crear estados de una intense conexión emocional.

Hacer un pastel, creer que se puede cocinar el pastel

--Alguna vez tu  (Have you ever)

-Ganará a la competencia 9 de 10 veces

-Como es cuando ?   What is it like when?

Cómo es cuando te pones muy caliente??

_Qué pasa cuando te pones muy caliente?

-        Siempre comunicarse con un objetivo en la mente.

-El propósito de la comunicación es obtener un resultado.

-SPEED SEDUCTION ES DIVERTIDO

SPEED SEDUCTION IS FUN

-Speed seduction funciona porque es  es oculto e indetectable.

-        No engolozinarse, ser suave, suave, suave siempre

-Siempre ir del menos intrusivo al más intrusivo.

-No resistir lo que ofrece, dar la vuelta y usarlo como una palanca.

-Los retos es donde la diversión está. Lo que no trabaja es la puerta abierta a nueva diversión y poder. Buscar lo que si funciona.

-LA TOTALIDAD ES TODO: el tono de voz (interno y externo) debe ser exacto con las palabras.  Aprender a controlar el trono de voz.!!

-No puedes tenerla a ella en el estado, a menos que tu primero estes en tu estado.

-Cuando tu te pones increíblemente excitada te encuentras obligada a actuar asi??

-Comó sería si??

-Cómo sería si te encontraras con una excitación creciente?

-Una persona puede.

-Una persona puede ponerse increíblemente excitada, hablando con alguien que realmente quiere!

-Si tu fueras a …

-Si tu fueras a ponerte muy excitada…

-Cómo en ti crece mas y mas la excitación.

-        It’s not necessary to..

-No es necesario que…

-No es necesario que disipes cualquier resistencia

-No es necesario para ti, que me encuentres más y más fascinante

-You really shouldn’t…

-        Tu realmente no deberías ….

Otro patrón de negación .

-        Tu realmente no deberías pensar en sexo asombroso…

You might find (yourself)

Tu deberias encontrate

-You might find a picture of you and me being together in a special way pops right into that space in your mind…

-to the point where …

-You might find those pictures start to get bigger and brighter to the point where that arousal just gets UHH – Incredibly intense.

-Invite you to notice…

And I invite you to notice how the deep, rich warmth of my voice is beginning to spread…

-Notice what it’s like…

Very useful for moving people’s internal pictures.

Notice what it’s like as that picture, for whatever mysterious reason, pops itself into that location.

-What Would it feel (be) like if…

What would it feel like if you were to instantaneously find yourself growing very aroused by the sound of someone’s voice?

-As if

I invite you to notice how they have already taken effect it’s as if you already knew all this stuff and you are enabled and empowered now to do it.

-instantaneously

All trance words work because they imply a process that takes place outside of conscious awareness or control.

-When something happens instantaneously in a person’s mind, it’s got to come out of an unconscious process.

-inmediately

Again, when you immediately “realize” or “convince yourself” it’s happening out of our control or awareness wich means TRANCE

-find yourself

What does it mean to “find yourself” doing something? That it wasn’t consciously planned or executed!  Wich means TRANCE

-suddenly

Same effect as instantaneously, immediately. It means that the thought comes from another awareness… the unconscious, TRANCE!

-picture

Don’t picture yourself having mastered these skills! Picture requires visual internal processing; day dreaming, hallucinating TRANCE!

-suppose

Suppose you were to master these skills! It means the same thing as “imagine”  TRANCE

-Convince Yourself

Don’t convince yourself to master these skills! In order to convince yourself and access all your internal processes! Very powerful way to induce a TRANCE!

-realize

When will you realize you can master these skills?

To realize means to have a thought just suddenly pop up in TRANCE!

-ponder

To ponder means “think about it”, usually in an altered, day-dream type state. In other words: TRANCE!

-mysterious

For whatever mysterious reason, you might realize suddenly that you can master these skills!

Mysterious has shades of unknown, hidden, unconscious TRANCE!

-imagine

It’s not important to me that you imagine having mastery of these skills! To imagine requires using you internal processes visually; similar to day dreaming or hallucinating! In other words… TRANCE

-remember

As you remember a time when you were an exquisite learner, you can realize how easily you can master these skills. Remember means “go inside” and access internally  TRANCE!

-wonder

To wonder requires a state of inner focus, awareness, attention …. TRANCE

-allow

As you allow yourself to master these skills, won’t it feel great after you’ve accomplished it? To allow something means it will happen without conscious effort; in other words, unconsciously in TRANCE.

-curious

Have you ever been curious as to why and when things just happen?

To be curious is to strongly desire to discover what is unknown and making that connection is done in your head.  TRANCE

-pretend

Just pretend you are getting all the messages in these cards and that these words are becoming an unconscious part of your vocabulary. To pretend you must go inside and construct something new in TRANCE!

-understand

It’s only important that you understand what is puzzling only as fast you master all the speed seduction techniques. Understanding requires you to internal process especially if the statement is vague. Ummmmmm, know what I mean. TRANCE.

-enchant

Have you ever been enchanted by a person, me, I know its happened. To be enchanted you must go inside and enhance those images recalled in euphoria. TRANCE!

-awaken

It’s as if you awaken feelings long lost to the point where you become totally alive again. What does it mean to awaken something on the inside of your head. TRANCE..

Aplicarlo con las amigas de las amigas tambien, aunque esten federicas, jejeje

Weasel Phrases

1.- When you…  When you feel incredibly turn on do you find yourself compelled to act on it??

2.- What would it be like if…  What would it be like if you were to feel incredibly turned on ?

3.- A person can …  A person can fell incredibly turned on, talking with someone they really, really like!.

4.- If you were to… If you were to feel incredibly turned on, do you think you might feel compelled to act on it?

5.- As you… As you feel incredibly turned on, can you feel how excited you’re getting?

PATRON DE NEGACIONES

6.- It’s not necessary to…  It’s not necessary to feel incredibly turned on, as you listen carefully to what I say!

7.- You really shouldn’t…  You really shouldn’t feel incredibly turned on !!

8.- You might find … You might find as you find incredibly turned on

9.-To the point where… You might find those pictures start to get bigger and brighter to the point where you feel incredibly turned on!

10.- Invite you to notice … And I invite you to notice, how the warmth of my voice, can allow you to feel incredibly turned on!

11.- How surprised would you be to …  How surprised will you be to find that you can feel incredibly turned on?

FORMULA:

Weasel Phrases + Command Verbs + States, Processes or Experiences = Embedded Commands

Example:  What’s  it like when you become incredibly turned on?

THE POWER OF “HAVE YOU EVER”

I COMMAND YOU to go inside yourself, remember a time when you felt totally fascinated by a man, and then feel that way about me!

Have you ever been totally fascinated with someone?   -> LISTEN CAREFULLY –> PICTURE IT CLEARLY?

PARA LA MAYORIA DE LAS MUJERES EL SEXO ES UNA EXPRESION DE CONECCIÓN EMOCIONAL

WHAT’S IT LIKE WHEN

ANCLAJE : CUNADO SE LANZA UNA FRASE DE WEASEL Y SE CHASQUEAN LOS DEDOS, SE PRODUCE UN ANCLAJE EMOCIONAL.

WHAT’S IT LIKE WHEN??

WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE IF?

WHAT WOULD IT FEEL LIKE IF?

There isn’t a Bit of Difference Between Describing and Directing !!!

If you want a woman to get hot and horny:

Ask her, “what’s it like when you’re incredibly attracted to somebody?” and then go on to describe that process and link it to yourself.

THE POWER OF NEGATION

We really shouldn’t be doing this!

You’re right. I shouldn’t be pulling up your top. I shouldn’t be sucking on your incredible breasts. And you don’t have to feel the incredibly pleasure you aren’t experience right now!.

You don’t have to imagine yourself six months from now,  already having mastered these patterns, and looking back on today as having been the start of it!

ACELERADORES E INTENSIFICADORES

Un tipo grosero dijo:  Can you imagine me going  down on you all  night long, and you getting so hot and turned on that you were beginning for it?

-I mean, can you believe that? Did he actually expect her to picture that all night long, and even become obsessed with those kind of thoughts?

-If you could imagine that feeling, could you feel it right now?

QUOTES

1. Think of what it is you’d like  to say to a woman, but couldn’t say to her directly.

2. Start off by telling her something like,  “You wouldn’t believe what I hear this person say to someone! He walked right up to her and:

3. Stick in what it is you’d like to say.

4. Stick in a command to make her continue to think about it.

TALKING ABOUT ANOTHER PERSON’S EXPERIENCE

Distintas locaciones de la mente para distintas imagenes.

EJERCICIO DE IMAGINARSE A ALGUIEN QUIEN QUIERE Y APUNTARLO CON EL DEDO, POSTERIORMENTE ALGUIEN QUE NO QUIERE NADA, Y VER QUE ESTAN EN DOS LUGARES DIFERENTES.

ANCHORING

If you get a person in a certain state, and then combine that state with a Couch or a sound, the person’s brain will associate that state with that sound or touch, so later, if you produce that sound or touch, the person will go back into that state.

2 tipos:  Directive Demostration and NonDirective, Conversational

Conversational/Anclaje no directo

1.- Use “have you ever”  or “what’s it like when” or “what’s the feeling of” to get her into the state you want to anchor.

2. Describe the state to intensify her experience.

3. As you finish your description, and her state peaks, reach over and touch her and as you do say, “Can you feel that … (pause) is an incredible experience to have?

DEMOSTRACION DIRECTA DE ANCLAJE

1. Can you remember a time when you were feeling X?
2. Close you eyes. See what you saw, hear what you heard, feel how it felt.
3. At peak of her pleasure, reach out and touch.
4. Repeat 2 times.
5. Fire off anchor by repeating same touch. Hold it while talking to her, or let it go and refire it later.
6. Accelerate her state even more using quotes, sub-modalities or describing other people’s experiences.

OTRO RESUMEN

FLASHCARD 1 --- CAPTURE AND LEAD THE WOMAN’S IMAGINATION

FLASHCARD 2 --- I HAVE AN INTUITION ABOUT YOU

FLASHCARD 3 --- I have an intuition about you: you really like to be watched, don’t you? –leading into strong sexual feelings---  you know when you feel those eyes on you and it feels like hundred hands touching you…

I have an intuition about you: You’re a very visual person. You MAKE PICTURES IN YOUR MIND VERY VIVIDLY. For example, if I were to say to you… IMAGINE your ideal vacation spot, you could SEE IT VERY CLEARLY, couldn’t you?  (put them in trance) In fact, you ..  I don’t know whether it’s a talent or an habit, but you can be with a man you’re really attracted to, you know someone who makes you FEEL THAT CLICK right … there … and it’s really funny cause on the one hand you FEEL TOTALLY DRAWN TO THIS PERSON so you FEEL ABSOLUTELY SAFE (build a state of comfort). You feel TOPTALLY COMFORTABLE, like you were meant to know them (emotional connection) … and on the other hand you FEEL THAT

EXCITEMENT, those tingly, thrilling feelings right in there as well (body feelings). I think when you MAKE THAT KIND OF CONNECTION, NOW … WITH ME (binding it to you)… as I sense it, that guy can think that you’re listening to him ‘cause you’re looking right at him, but you can be having other.., THOUGHTS… (a state of arousal) by the way, you’re probably not aware, how when you HAVE THOSE THOUGHTS,  how when you WATCH THOSE PICTURES GET BIGGER AND BRIGHTER, how the feelings get much more intense … as you GO MORE INSIDE … (amplifying and deeper trance)

I can tell you’re a woman of great taste … cause you laugh at what I say …

It’s like that voice says, “This is the main chance. What you want is right in front of you. You gotta get some. Go for it” You know, it’s too bad we’ll never get a chance to talk without all these interruption

I have an intuition about you

“what’s that”

I have an intuition that you are very visual

You make pictures in your head very well

In fact you have a talent

Your talent is that you can look right at someone

And they think you’re listening

But you could be making movies in your mind of something you’d rather be doing

“oh my god that’s right, how did you know that?”

You motivate yourself STOP!

And think of something that really motivates you

Something you just can’t wait to do

“her pupils dilated”

Do you see it

It’s a big picture in front of your face isn’t it

And notice as you take the picture and pull it away and make it smaller

Doesn’t it seem less motivating?

“oh my god yes it does”

But then there’s like a blank spot that wants to be filled in

So notice what it’s like as an image of you and I laughing over a cup of coffee

Just sticks itself and locks itself right in there

Doesn’t it make it seem like something you want to do

“laughing” “My god I know you just shoved it in there, but it’s working anyway”

People are hypnosis machines

People are used to content and because of that they resist it

People are not used to having the direction and the process of their mind directed and controlled they’re not used to that

They don’t resist it

Direct the process of their mind so they are ready for any content that you want to give them

There are varying degrees of suggestibility

Some people are more suggestible than others

Some people have more barriers than others

Dating is for women who you’re already sleeping with, dating is not the vehicle that you use to seduce a woman

However you can do it, create states of powerful emotional connection before moving on to sexual arousal

Skill 1

The ability to observe and see what response you’re getting

Skill 2

The flexibility to change to something else if aren’t getting the response you want

Skill 3

Is the ability to be patient and learn from trial and error

If something isn’t working congratulate yourself you are about to find what does

No failures just learnings

The minute you see a negative response,  back up and do something else

The more intelligent the woman is the better it works

Find an intelligent woman

Smarter is always better

Power Attitude #1: Being with you is the absolute best possible choice that any woman can make.

Power Attitude #2: I never get rejected, I only discover whether a woman has good taste. 

Power Attitude #3: You never know what kind of physical type a woman goes for.  So you go for it powerfully and congruently.

Power Attitude #4: Never attach excess meaning to whether you get accepted or rejected. 

Power Principle #5: If a woman wants you a little bit, she’ll want you a lot more if she has to work to get you. 

.  The ability to walk away from someone who’s wasting your time gives you all that much more confidence to approach someone new.

Use selective reinforcement to your advantage.  Willingness to walk away.  Do it without being punishing or nasty. 

Power Principle #6: It’s okay to be wrong more than you’re right.  You’ll wrong tiny, and be right humongous.

Affirmations

Step 1: get into a relaxed state, take a few deep breaths, close your eyes, good posture, breathing

Step 2: say to yourself on the inside 3 times: “my mind will keep these commands in my memory and make everything necessary for them to happen”

Step 3: say each affirmation 3 times out loud using correct tonality

Step 4: repeat to yourself on the inside 3 times: “these commands are fulfilled.”

Step 5:

Affirmation #1: You are aggressive, direct, and powerful with the women you desire.  You radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.

Affirmation #2: Your mind is focused on your final outcome.  You go for what you want congruently and powerfully.

You are so hilarious that the people around you can’t help but laugh until their bellies hurt.  You have an innately hilarious humor that can’t help but shine through when you let it go.

You have such an ability to experience an incredibly intimate rapport with people that they can’t help but feel completely in tune with you and smile until their face hurts.

Affirmation #4: You take immediate advantage of your opportunities with women. You swiftly establish incredible rapport, gather the information that you need, and close with aggression, power, and finesse.

Affirmation #5: You radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that people find irresistibly attractive.

There are so many opportunities in life that you pursue those that are most in line with your quest for ultimate meaning and fulfillment.  focus on only those that are the absolute best use of your time.

The universe is such an incredibly abundant place that you allow it to move you with a truly joyful, carefree spirit.

, upon discovering a new one,

Affirmation #6: You safeguard your morale and self-esteem at all times. 

You are as a chameleon, with the ability to precisely calibrate yourself to any situation you might find yourself in.

You are becoming so adept at the Jedi skills of life that you have an arsenal of states, attitudes, and behaviors that allow you to effortlessly master any situation you might find yourself in.

Don’t force your behavior to change.  You’ll find yourself just automatically doing the right thing.

Associated State Rehearsal

Step 1: Close eyes and see 40-ft tall powerful super-confident image of myself, leaning back 20 to 30 degrees

Step 2: Turn him around, raise him up, and drop the image onto myself

Step 3: See through my 40-ft tall eyes and hear my thunderous voice

Step 4: See through those eyes a gorgeous girl I’d like to have

Step 5: Over one of her shoulders, see that powerful 40-ft tall you again.  Over the other, play a movie of me and her getting it on like crazy later on in the evening.

Step 6: As you keep seeing all of this, say “Ah, look at that!  I’m going to have her tonight.  Let’s give her a chance to get to know me.”

Step 7: Zoom in on that part of her body I really like, and hear that voice in my mind say “go for it!”

Step 8: Notice how incredibly powerful and motivated I feel.

 

Cleaning up your past

1)     Think of a recent mistake you made w/ women

2)     Watch the 40-ft tall you in a movie theater watching a small black-and-white movie of making the mistake from beginning to end, he notices where you start making the mistake and can think of how he would’ve done it differently

3)     Back the movie up to an hour before the mistake happened and watch how the 40-ft tall you does it right and it comes out the way you want

4)     Go back to an hour before the first time you ever made the mistake, turn and look towards the present and see the most recent time you’ve done it right because you corrected it

5)     Now from an hour before the first time you ever did it, watch the 40-ft tall you doing it right, with it turning out the way you want

6)     Repeat steps 4 and 5, but with an experience that’s in between the other two – go to an hour before the middle experience, see it right in the past, see it right in the future, and with a sense that you’ve already done it right and will in the future, run through it with it turning out the way you want

7)     In the future, an hour before a time when you’ll be faced with a similar situation, look back on the past 3 times you’ve done it right, turn back to the future, and see it coming out the way you’d want it to.

Flub-ups can be anything, even failing to recognize that the woman was a waste of time.

“Excuse me, but would you ever go out for coffee with a guy you met at a place like this?”

“Well, that depends.”

“Great, well my name is ________.”

“Excuse me, but I’d like to ask you a question – Have you ever felt instantly comfortable talking to someone you’ve just met?”

“Yes.”

“Great, well my name is __________.”

“That’s a great dress you’re almost wearing.”

“Ever heard the expression ‘A body that just won’t quit’?  Well yours doesn’t even take a coffee break.”

 

1^st gear: Get them laughing

2^nd gear: Get them talking about themselves in a comfortable way

3^rd gear: Get them really turned on

4^th gear: Close the deal

(laughing) “Has anyone ever told you you’re a shining example of genetic perfection?”

90-10 rule: 90% of your pleasure will come from 10% of the women you approach.

1^st step: approach, get her attention, get her laughing

2^nd step: introduce yourself

3^rd step: get her talking about herself (ie, analyze handwriting)

Then, titillate:  “When you think about how wonderful it feels to be loved by someone you truly care for, doesn’t it make you really want to be with someone special again?” – Gets her to remember a time, she starts to associate it with you.

In the appropriate place.

4^th Step: Closing the deal:  “I think you’re a really great lady, and I think you deserve the chance to go out with me and discover how much fun you can have.  Can you be ready Monday night at 8 o’clock…” – making it a positive benefit to her.

(Some don’t want to wait until later…)

How can I enjoy the challenges that living this adventure will give me?