1.-LLAMAR SU ATENCIÓN
2.- ESTABLECER ESTADOS DE SUS SENTIMIENTOS Y
UNA CONEXIÓN EXTRAORDINARIA Y LIGA A TI
3.- CREAR ESTADOS DE CELENTAMIENTO,
EXCITACIÓN, ATRACCIÓN.
4.- AMPLIFICAR ESTOS ESTADOS, Y LIGARLOS A TI.
-Yo solo quiero decir, y espero que no encuentres
esto muy intrusivo (extraño)
-Te importaría si solo te pregunto, solo para
ayudarme a entender mejor…
REGLAS Y ACTITUES DE SPEED SEDUCTION
- Siempre comunicarse con una dirección u objetivo en mente.
- Primero crear estados de fascinación, conexión, sentimiento y conexión intensa, antes de moverse a la parte sexual.
- El propósito de tu comunicación no es darle un entendimiento; el propósito de tu comunicación es obtener un resultado.(S.S. trbaja al manipular y dirijir el inconsciente y los procesos inconscientes, NO dando una aceptación consciente. Deja de discutir y explicarlo a tus competidores).
- Speed Seduction es divertido, es una actitud divertida la del S.S.
- Manten tus habilidades en secreto (Cualquier técnica trabaja mejor si es secreta e inesperada, entonces no hay que decir que se conocen estas cosas).
- Ser humilde con el conocimiento, y entender como funciona la mente.
- Siempre ir de lo menos intrusivo a lo más intrusivo.
- Nunca resistir lo que ofrece una mujer---voltealo y usalo como palanca. Mostraremos como destruir las objeciones de las mujeres, usando este principio.
- La diversión está donde está el reto. Lo que no está trabajando es la puerta abierta a nuevos poderes y entendimientos.
- La menor atracción inicial que tenga por ti, o lo menos sexual que es una persona, lo mas que debes contar en mojar su cuerpo para que ella te coja. Observa que respuestas estas teniendo y responde de manera acorde.
- Usa los ablandadores libremente. Haciendo esto, podrás introducir los tópicos más salvajes, como las preguntas más intruisivas, y se vera respetable, normal guy, instead of a sex-crazed mind-fucker.
Softener:
Cuando estoy conociendo a alguien, es
importante para mi encontrar que es lo que realmente quieren de su vida.
Entonces, si no te importa que pregunte, que es realmente importante para ti
de…
LA ACTITUD CORRECTA ES VERY IMPORTANT ISSUE
PENSAR COMO EL PESCADOR Y NO JALAR MUY RÁPIDO
EL ANZUELO
Hacerlo hasta que piense que es algo natural
el hacerlo
Si la técnica no funciona con algunas mujeres,
no es tu culpa:
ALGUNAS MUJERES LLEVAN LA MUERTE ADENTRO ->
R.J.
No puedes obtener pasión de una frigida, fria,
apagada pepa.
Te quiero como u pit bull a la hora de ser un
maestro en la técnica de Speed Seduction.
Que hace un pit bull, una vez que agarra algo
no lo suelta.
TU APRENDERAS ALGO QUE PODRAS USAR LA PROXIMA
VEZ
ESTAR CONTIGO ES LA MEJOR OPCIÓN POSIBLE QUE
UNA MUJER PUEDE HACER!!!
CREAR LA CONEXIÓN EMOCIONAL…
NECESITARAS SALIR Y CREAR TUS OPORTUNIDADES.
A Speed
Seducer takes one look, decides to go for it,
HE’S AFTER
THAT WOMAN LIKE STINK ON SHIT!!!!
SE CONCENTRA EN ATRAER AQUELLAS QUE TIENEN
SABOR POR LA VIDA.
The Average
Frustated Chump is a sensible economy sedan. The Speed Seducer in his approach to women and
life in general is A NITRO-BURNING FUNNY CAR !!!
Toda experiencia es simplemente una
oportunidad de aprender, expandirse y crecer. No hay fallas; solo
retroalimentación, solamente hay falla si tu te dejas caer y renuncias!!!
SOLO TU PUEDES DETERMINAR CUANTO PODER LE DARAS
A UNA MUJER PARA PARARTE!!!
Una de las herramientas básicas para hacer que
alguien se mueva en la dirección que uno quiera son los comandos.
COMANDOS
Puedes
meter el comando Sentirse muy atraido Feel very attracted, You know, some
people find, as they listen to someone who’s very fascinating, that they can
FEEL VERY ATRACTED, Debbie.”
Aplicando los patrones, las mujeres dirán:
God, I’m
really getting hot, but I shouldn’t be Keeling this way. I don’t even know this
guy!!!
Crear estados de una intense conexión
emocional.
Hacer un pastel, creer que se puede cocinar el
pastel
--Alguna vez tu (Have you ever)
-Ganará a la competencia 9 de 10 veces
-Como es cuando ? What is it like when?
Cómo es cuando te pones muy caliente??
_Qué pasa cuando te pones muy caliente?
-
Siempre comunicarse con un
objetivo en la mente.
-El propósito de la comunicación es obtener un
resultado.
-SPEED SEDUCTION ES DIVERTIDO
SPEED SEDUCTION IS FUN
-Speed seduction funciona porque es es oculto e indetectable.
-
No engolozinarse, ser suave,
suave, suave siempre
-Siempre ir del menos intrusivo al más
intrusivo.
-No resistir lo que ofrece, dar la vuelta y
usarlo como una palanca.
-Los retos es donde la diversión está. Lo que
no trabaja es la puerta abierta a nueva diversión y poder. Buscar lo que si
funciona.
-LA TOTALIDAD ES TODO: el tono de voz (interno
y externo) debe ser exacto con las palabras.
Aprender a controlar el trono de voz.!!
-No puedes tenerla a ella en el estado, a
menos que tu primero estes en tu estado.
-Cuando tu te pones increíblemente excitada te
encuentras obligada a actuar asi??
-Comó sería si??
-Cómo sería si te encontraras con una
excitación creciente?
-Una persona puede.
-Una persona puede ponerse increíblemente
excitada, hablando con alguien que realmente quiere!
-Si tu fueras a …
-Si tu fueras a ponerte muy excitada…
-Cómo en ti crece mas y mas la excitación.
-
It’s not necessary to..
-No es necesario que…
-No es necesario que disipes cualquier
resistencia
-No es necesario para ti, que me encuentres
más y más fascinante
-You really shouldn’t…
-
Tu realmente no deberías ….
Otro patrón de negación .
-
Tu realmente no deberías pensar en
sexo asombroso…
You might find (yourself)
Tu deberias
encontrate
-You might
find a picture of you and me being together in a special way pops right into
that space in your mind…
-to the
point where …
-You might
find those pictures start to get bigger and brighter to the point where that
arousal just gets UHH – Incredibly intense.
-Invite you
to notice…
And I
invite you to notice how the deep, rich warmth of my voice is beginning to
spread…
-Notice
what it’s like…
Very useful
for moving people’s internal pictures.
Notice what
it’s like as that picture, for whatever mysterious reason, pops itself into
that location.
-What Would
it feel (be) like if…
What would
it feel like if you were to instantaneously find yourself growing very aroused
by the sound of someone’s voice?
-As if
I invite
you to notice how they have already taken effect it’s as if you already knew
all this stuff and you are enabled and empowered now to do it.
-instantaneously
All trance
words work because they imply a process that takes place outside of conscious
awareness or control.
-When
something happens instantaneously in a person’s mind, it’s got to come out of
an unconscious process.
-inmediately
Again, when
you immediately “realize” or “convince yourself” it’s happening out of our
control or awareness wich means TRANCE
-find
yourself
What does
it mean to “find yourself” doing something? That it wasn’t consciously planned
or executed! Wich means TRANCE
-suddenly
Same effect
as instantaneously, immediately. It means that the thought comes from another
awareness… the unconscious, TRANCE!
-picture
Don’t
picture yourself having mastered these skills! Picture requires visual internal
processing; day dreaming, hallucinating TRANCE!
-suppose
Suppose you
were to master these skills! It means the same thing as “imagine” TRANCE
-Convince
Yourself
Don’t
convince yourself to master these skills! In order to convince yourself and
access all your internal processes! Very powerful way to induce a TRANCE!
-realize
When will
you realize you can master these skills?
To realize
means to have a thought just suddenly pop up in TRANCE!
-ponder
To ponder
means “think about it”, usually in an altered, day-dream type state. In other
words: TRANCE!
-mysterious
For
whatever mysterious reason, you might realize suddenly that you can master
these skills!
Mysterious
has shades of unknown, hidden, unconscious TRANCE!
-imagine
It’s not
important to me that you imagine having mastery of these skills! To imagine
requires using you internal processes visually; similar to day dreaming or
hallucinating! In other words… TRANCE
-remember
As you
remember a time when you were an exquisite learner, you can realize how easily
you can master these skills. Remember means “go inside” and access
internally TRANCE!
-wonder
To wonder
requires a state of inner focus, awareness, attention …. TRANCE
-allow
As you
allow yourself to master these skills, won’t it feel great after you’ve
accomplished it? To allow something means it will happen without conscious
effort; in other words, unconsciously in TRANCE.
-curious
Have you
ever been curious as to why and when things just happen?
To be
curious is to strongly desire to discover what is unknown and making that
connection is done in your head. TRANCE
-pretend
Just
pretend you are getting all the messages in these cards and that these words
are becoming an unconscious part of your vocabulary. To pretend you must go
inside and construct something new in TRANCE!
-understand
It’s only
important that you understand what is puzzling only as fast you master all the
speed seduction techniques. Understanding requires you to internal process
especially if the statement is vague. Ummmmmm, know what I mean. TRANCE.
-enchant
Have you
ever been enchanted by a person, me, I know its happened. To be enchanted you
must go inside and enhance those images recalled in euphoria. TRANCE!
-awaken
It’s as if
you awaken feelings long lost to the point where you become totally alive
again. What does it mean to awaken something on the inside of your head.
TRANCE..
Aplicarlo con las amigas de las amigas
tambien, aunque esten federicas, jejeje
Weasel Phrases
1.- When
you… When you feel incredibly turn on do
you find yourself compelled to act on it??
2.- What
would it be like if… What would it be
like if you were to feel incredibly turned on ?
3.- A
person can … A person can fell incredibly
turned on, talking with someone they really, really like!.
4.- If you
were to… If you were to feel incredibly turned on, do you think you might feel
compelled to act on it?
5.- As you…
As you feel incredibly turned on, can you feel how excited you’re getting?
PATRON DE
NEGACIONES
6.- It’s
not necessary to… It’s not necessary to
feel incredibly turned on, as you listen carefully to what I say!
7.- You
really shouldn’t… You really shouldn’t
feel incredibly turned on !!
8.- You
might find … You might find as you find incredibly turned on
9.-To the
point where… You might find those pictures start to get bigger and brighter to
the point where you feel incredibly turned on!
10.- Invite
you to notice … And I invite you to notice, how the warmth of my voice, can
allow you to feel incredibly turned on!
11.- How
surprised would you be to … How
surprised will you be to find that you can feel incredibly turned on?
FORMULA:
Weasel
Phrases + Command Verbs + States, Processes or Experiences = Embedded Commands
Example: What’s
it like when you become incredibly turned on?
THE POWER
OF “HAVE YOU EVER”
I COMMAND
YOU to go inside yourself, remember a time when you felt totally fascinated by
a man, and then feel that way about me!
Have you
ever been totally fascinated with someone?
-> LISTEN CAREFULLY –> PICTURE IT CLEARLY?
PARA LA MAYORIA DE LAS MUJERES EL SEXO ES UNA
EXPRESION DE CONECCIÓN EMOCIONAL
WHAT’S IT LIKE WHEN
ANCLAJE : CUNADO SE LANZA UNA FRASE DE WEASEL
Y SE CHASQUEAN LOS DEDOS, SE PRODUCE UN ANCLAJE EMOCIONAL.
WHAT’S IT LIKE WHEN??
WHAT WOULD
IT BE LIKE IF?
WHAT WOULD
IT FEEL LIKE IF?
There isn’t
a Bit of Difference Between Describing and Directing !!!
If you want
a woman to get hot and horny:
Ask her,
“what’s it like when you’re incredibly attracted to somebody?” and then go on
to describe that process and link it to yourself.
THE POWER
OF NEGATION
We really
shouldn’t be doing this!
You’re
right. I shouldn’t be pulling up your top. I shouldn’t be sucking on your
incredible breasts. And you don’t have to feel the incredibly pleasure you
aren’t experience right now!.
You don’t
have to imagine yourself six months from now,
already having mastered these patterns, and looking back on today as
having been the start of it!
ACELERADORES
E INTENSIFICADORES
Un tipo
grosero dijo: Can you imagine me
going down on you all night long, and you getting so hot and turned
on that you were beginning for it?
-I mean,
can you believe that? Did he actually expect her to picture that all night
long, and even become obsessed with those kind of thoughts?
-If you
could imagine that feeling, could you feel it right now?
QUOTES
- Think of what it is you’d like to say to a woman, but couldn’t say to her directly.
- Start off by telling her something like, “You wouldn’t believe what I hear this person say to someone! He walked right up to her and:
- Stick in what it is you’d like to say.
- Stick in a command to make her continue to think about it.
TALKING
ABOUT ANOTHER PERSON’S EXPERIENCE
Distintas locaciones de la mente para
distintas imagenes.
EJERCICIO DE IMAGINARSE A ALGUIEN QUIEN QUIERE
Y APUNTARLO CON EL DEDO, POSTERIORMENTE ALGUIEN QUE NO QUIERE NADA, Y VER QUE
ESTAN EN DOS LUGARES DIFERENTES.
ANCHORING
If you get
a person in a certain state, and then combine that state with a Couch or a
sound, the person’s brain will associate that state with that sound or touch,
so later, if you produce that sound or touch, the person will go back into that
state.
2
tipos: Directive Demostration and
NonDirective, Conversational
Conversational/Anclaje
no directo
1.- Use
“have you ever” or “what’s it like when”
or “what’s the feeling of” to get her into the state you want to anchor.
2. Describe
the state to intensify her experience.
3. As you
finish your description, and her state peaks, reach over and touch her and as
you do say, “Can you feel that … (pause) is an incredible experience to have?
DEMOSTRACION
DIRECTA DE ANCLAJE
- Can you remember a time when you were feeling X?
- Close you eyes. See what you saw, hear what you heard, feel how it felt.
- At peak of her pleasure, reach out and touch.
- Repeat 2 times.
- Fire off anchor by repeating same touch. Hold it while talking to her, or let it go and refire it later.
- Accelerate her state even more using quotes, sub-modalities or describing other people’s experiences.
OTRO
RESUMEN
FLASHCARD 1
--- CAPTURE AND LEAD THE WOMAN’S IMAGINATION
FLASHCARD 2
--- I HAVE AN INTUITION ABOUT YOU
FLASHCARD 3
--- I have an intuition about you: you really like to be watched, don’t you?
–leading into strong sexual feelings---
you know when you feel those eyes on you and it feels like hundred hands
touching you…
I have an
intuition about you: You’re a very visual person. You MAKE PICTURES IN YOUR
MIND VERY VIVIDLY. For example, if I were to say to you… IMAGINE your ideal
vacation spot, you could SEE IT VERY CLEARLY, couldn’t you? (put them in trance) In fact, you .. I don’t know whether it’s a talent or an
habit, but you can be with a man you’re really attracted to, you know someone
who makes you FEEL THAT CLICK right … there … and it’s really funny cause on
the one hand you FEEL TOTALLY DRAWN TO THIS PERSON so you FEEL ABSOLUTELY SAFE
(build a state of comfort). You feel TOPTALLY COMFORTABLE, like you were meant
to know them (emotional connection) … and on the other hand you FEEL THAT
EXCITEMENT,
those tingly, thrilling feelings right in there as well (body feelings). I
think when you MAKE THAT KIND OF CONNECTION, NOW … WITH ME (binding it to you)…
as I sense it, that guy can think that you’re listening to him ‘cause you’re
looking right at him, but you can be having other.., THOUGHTS… (a state of
arousal) by the way, you’re probably not aware, how when you HAVE THOSE
THOUGHTS, how when you WATCH THOSE
PICTURES GET BIGGER AND BRIGHTER, how the feelings get much more intense … as
you GO MORE INSIDE … (amplifying and deeper trance)
I can tell
you’re a woman of great taste … cause you laugh at what I say …
It’s like
that voice says, “This is the main chance. What you want is right in front of
you. You gotta get some. Go for it” You know, it’s too bad we’ll never get a
chance to talk without all these interruption
I
have an intuition about you
“what’s
that”
I
have an intuition that you are very visual
You
make pictures in your head very well
In
fact you have a talent
Your
talent is that you can look right at someone
And
they think you’re listening
But
you could be making movies in your mind of something you’d rather be doing
“oh
my god that’s right, how did you know that?”
You
motivate yourself STOP!
And
think of something that really motivates you
Something you just can’t wait to do
“her
pupils dilated”
Do
you see it
It’s
a big picture in front of your face isn’t it
And
notice as you take the picture and pull it away and make it smaller
Doesn’t
it seem less motivating?
“oh
my god yes it does”
But
then there’s like a blank spot that wants to be filled in
So
notice what it’s like as an image of you and I laughing over a cup of coffee
Just
sticks itself and locks itself right in there
Doesn’t
it make it seem like something you want to do
“laughing”
“My god I know you just shoved it in there, but it’s working anyway”
People
are hypnosis machines
People
are used to content and because of that they resist it
People
are not used to having the direction and the process of their mind directed and
controlled they’re not used to that
They
don’t resist it
Direct
the process of their mind so they are ready for any content that you want to
give them
There
are varying degrees of suggestibility
Some
people are more suggestible than others
Some
people have more barriers than others
Dating
is for women who you’re already sleeping with, dating is not the vehicle that
you use to seduce a woman
However
you can do it, create states of powerful emotional connection before moving on
to sexual arousal
Skill 1
The
ability to observe and see what response you’re getting
Skill
2
The
flexibility to change to something else if aren’t getting the response you want
Skill
3
Is
the ability to be patient and learn from trial and error
If
something isn’t working congratulate yourself you are about to find what does
No
failures just learnings
The minute you see a
negative response, back up and do
something else
The
more intelligent the woman is the better it works
Find
an intelligent woman
Smarter
is always better
Power Attitude #1: Being with
you is the absolute best possible choice that any woman can make.
Power Attitude #2: I never get
rejected, I only discover whether a woman has good taste.
Power
Attitude #3: You never know what kind of physical type a woman goes for. So you go for it powerfully and congruently.
Power
Attitude #4: Never attach excess meaning to whether you get accepted or
rejected.
Power Principle #5: If a woman
wants you a little bit, she’ll want you a lot more if she has to work to get
you.
. The ability to walk away from someone who’s
wasting your time gives you all that much more confidence to approach someone
new.
Use
selective reinforcement to your advantage.
Willingness to walk away. Do it
without being punishing or nasty.
Power
Principle #6: It’s okay to be wrong more than you’re right. You’ll wrong tiny, and
be right humongous.
Affirmations
Step 1: get
into a relaxed state, take a few deep breaths, close your eyes, good posture,
breathing
Step 2: say
to yourself on the inside 3 times: “my mind will keep these commands in my
memory and make everything necessary for them to happen”
Step 3: say
each affirmation 3 times out loud using correct tonality
Step 4:
repeat to yourself on the inside 3 times: “these commands are fulfilled.”
Step 5:
Affirmation
#1: You are aggressive, direct, and powerful with the women you desire. You radiate a confidence, self-control and
charm that women find irresistibly attractive.
Affirmation
#2: Your mind is focused on your final outcome.
You go for what you want congruently and powerfully.
You are so
hilarious that the people around you can’t help but laugh until their bellies
hurt. You have an innately hilarious
humor that can’t help but shine through when you let it go.
You have
such an ability to experience an incredibly intimate rapport with people that
they can’t help but feel completely in tune with you and smile until their face
hurts.
Affirmation
#4: You take immediate advantage of your opportunities with women. You swiftly
establish incredible rapport, gather the information that you need, and close
with aggression, power, and finesse.
Affirmation
#5: You radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that people find irresistibly
attractive.
There are
so many opportunities in life that you pursue those that are most in line with
your quest for ultimate meaning and fulfillment. focus on only those that are the absolute
best use of your time.
The
universe is such an incredibly abundant place that you allow it to move you
with a truly joyful, carefree spirit.
, upon
discovering a new one,
Affirmation
#6: You safeguard your morale and self-esteem at all times.
You are as
a chameleon, with the ability to precisely calibrate yourself to any situation
you might find yourself in.
You are
becoming so adept at the Jedi skills of life that you have an arsenal of
states, attitudes, and behaviors that allow you to effortlessly master any
situation you might find yourself in.
Don’t force
your behavior to change. You’ll find
yourself just automatically doing the right thing.
Associated State Rehearsal
Step 1:
Close eyes and see 40-ft tall powerful super-confident image of myself, leaning
back 20 to 30 degrees
Step 2:
Turn him around, raise him up, and drop the image onto myself
Step 3: See
through my 40-ft tall eyes and hear my thunderous voice
Step 4: See
through those eyes a gorgeous girl I’d like to have
Step 5:
Over one of her shoulders, see that powerful 40-ft tall you again. Over the other, play a movie of me and her
getting it on like crazy later on in the evening.
Step 6: As
you keep seeing all of this, say “Ah, look at that! I’m going to have her tonight. Let’s give her a chance to get to know me.”
Step 7:
Zoom in on that part of her body I really like, and hear that voice in my mind
say “go for it!”
Step 8:
Notice how incredibly powerful and motivated I feel.
Cleaning up your past
1)
Think
of a recent mistake you made w/ women
2)
Watch
the 40-ft tall you in a movie theater watching a small black-and-white movie of
making the mistake from beginning to end, he notices where you start making the
mistake and can think of how he would’ve done it differently
3)
Back
the movie up to an hour before the mistake happened and watch how the 40-ft
tall you does it right and it comes out the way you want
4)
Go
back to an hour before the first time you ever made the mistake, turn and look
towards the present and see the most recent time you’ve done it right because
you corrected it
5)
Now
from an hour before the first time you ever did it, watch the 40-ft tall you
doing it right, with it turning out the way you want
6)
Repeat
steps 4 and 5, but with an experience that’s in between the other two – go to
an hour before the middle experience, see it right in the past, see it right in
the future, and with a sense that you’ve already done it right and will in the
future, run through it with it turning out the way you want
7)
In
the future, an hour before a time when you’ll be faced with a similar
situation, look back on the past 3 times you’ve done it right, turn back to the
future, and see it coming out the way you’d want it to.
Flub-ups
can be anything, even failing to recognize that the woman was a waste of time.
“Excuse me,
but would you ever go out for coffee with a guy you met at a place like this?”
“Well, that
depends.”
“Great,
well my name is ________.”
“Excuse me,
but I’d like to ask you a question – Have you ever felt instantly comfortable
talking to someone you’ve just met?”
“Yes.”
“Great,
well my name is __________.”
“That’s a
great dress you’re almost wearing.”
“Ever heard
the expression ‘A body that just won’t quit’?
Well yours doesn’t even take a coffee break.”
1st
gear: Get them laughing
2nd
gear: Get them talking about themselves in a comfortable way
3rd
gear: Get them really turned on
4th
gear: Close the deal
(laughing)
“Has anyone ever told you you’re a shining example of genetic perfection?”
90-10 rule:
90% of your pleasure will come from 10% of the women you approach.
1st
step: approach, get her attention, get her laughing
2nd
step: introduce yourself
3rd
step: get her talking about herself (ie, analyze handwriting)
Then,
titillate: “When you think about how
wonderful it feels to be loved by someone you truly care for, doesn’t it make
you really want to be with someone special again?” – Gets her to remember a
time, she starts to associate it with you.
In the
appropriate place.
4th
Step: Closing the deal: “I think you’re
a really great lady, and I think you deserve the chance to go out with me and
discover how much fun you can have. Can
you be ready Monday night at 8 o’clock…” – making it a positive benefit to her.
(Some
don’t want to wait until later…)
How can I
enjoy the challenges that living this adventure will give me?